Username: owlsomniac What I Need to Hear: You've had a lot of tough breaks this year and I know things seem really rough sometimes, but you're going to get through it.
Username: Scaramouche Fandango What I Need to Hear: You will actually finish your dissertation and you won't burn out completely and have wasted ten years of your life on a degree you didn't get.
Username: purplerosesbeauty What I Need to Hear: You don't need to do things that make you miserable. You don't need to scrounge around hoping someone will eventually love you. Someone already loves you very much even if you don't think they do. Be patient as always.
Username: Lirilei What I Need to Hear: Your none of the things your brain constantly tries to convince yourself of. You're not useless, you're not unwanted, you do have friends and people who care about you and aren't just tolerating you to be nice, and despite all your health crap you do manage to contribute and you are getting better day by day even if it sometimes doesn't feel like it. Be nicer to yourself, you deserve to do nice things for yourself without feeling any guilt or like you're wasting time.
Username: PawaHour What I Need to Hear: You don't need to break yourself to get people to stay. Your worth isn't measured by how much you will destroy yourself for someone. The ones who love you wouldn't leave you for something so trivial and the ones that matter see more to you than just what you can do for them. You are so talented and funny and so much more than that!
And don't forget how far you've come this year! Be proud of that! Keep going someday you truly will be glad you did. You'll find your place in the world and have your moment in the sun, don't worry that it's taking you a little longer than most! You've been dealt some bad hands in life but never forget the good you've been given too!
Username: AMItotic What I Need to Hear: You're doing things today that were impossible a year ago. It's okay to be proud of progress, even if it's not at the pace you expected.
Username: Toshiful What I Need to Hear: I am dutiful and clever and I have a perspectives that some people would enjoy. I can make something interesting and something new.